Hello Andrea!
VF: Validation Frequency
As far as I know, the selection of validation frequency depends on the following:
(1) The amount of training data
If the training data is large and the VF if small number (let's say after 30 iterations), the model will not learn enough while validating more oftenly results in long training time and maybe stop the training early if the 'ValidationPatience' is not set to 'Inf'.
(2) How fast the model learns the data well
If a problem is easy and the model learns it quickly, the VF supposed to be in range of 1/15th times of the iterations/epoch to 1/7th times of the iterations/epoch to let the network stop early and not gets overfit. But if the problem is complicated and model can't learns it quickly, then it is better to select the VF in range of 1/7th times of the iterations/epoch to 1/3th times of the iterations/epoch to let the model learns enough before validating.
Note: Iterations/epoch can be calculated as total number of training samples/mini-batch size.